Frequently Asked Questions

Are you sure this is legal?

In March 2002, the Providence Police department stopped by. They had read our website and were concerned that we were violating some of the licensing laws of the city (for example, that we were selling alcohol). They were not there to shut us down, and we were not doing anything illegal. They were very polite, and said that they understood that this was a lifestyle club and that they wanted to avoid disrupting the party. After a quick conversation, the owners decided to let them into the club. They declined, saying that they really didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable. We scheduled an appointment with the two officers for the following Monday morning. On Monday, March 25, 2002, we met with them at the club. They did a walkthrough that lasted about 15 minutes, decided that there were no licensing violations going on, and thanked us for our cooperation. All in all, we were pleased with the experience.

We would like to take this opportunity to remind you that all activities at the Choice Nightclub are 100% legal. This means that no illegal activities of any kind will be tolerated at the club. Certain illegal activities are grounds for expulsion from the club. Others, such as drug use, will get you held until the police arrive. We have an excellent relationship with the local police and intend to maintain it.

Where is the club located?

The Club is located in Providence, Rhode Island. The exact location is revealed only to members in order to protect their privacy. For driving estimates, we do provide an approximate location.

What is the difference between an adult lifestyle club and a swingers party?

An Adult Lifestyles Club caters to many different aspects of adult sexuality, where the traditional swingers parties primarily cater to heterosexual encounters between couples, or couples and single females. As an Adult Lifestyles Club we attract people who identify as heterosexual, bisexual, transgendered, and gay. Our members are interested in swing, voyeurism, exhibitionism, and fetish play (bd/sm, body worship, and just about anything else that's legal!). Check out our mission statement for more information

When are the parties?

Currently the Choice Nightclub operates 5-6 events per month, every Saturday (and one Friday late in the month) evenings from 8:15pm to 2am. Please check our schedule for upcoming events.

What are your members like?

Our members are the same nice people that you find are attracted to these lifestyles across the country. They come in all shapes, colors and sizes. For more about our members check out our community section.

How can I attend a party?

Only members and their guests may attend events. If you learned about us through a current member they may bring you as a guest. Alternately, you may join now as a member.

I am an ex-member, why do I have to pay the application fee again?

All applications and renewals are subject to the application fee because you are applying for a new term of membership. As a courtesy to those members who do not let their membership lapse, we waive the application fee.

Do I have to participate in intimate activities?

While we always hope that you will be inspired to participate, we would never mandate participation. The layout of the club and the themes/foci of the events mean that you will only be exposed to those activities you wish to encounter and the choice to participate is always yours.